It takes a long time and is not a straight upward climb, there will probably be setbacks / backsliding, etc. That was very frustrating for me as I had gotten a taste of the Golden fruit then went backwards inexplicably, I didn’t think I was doing anything different; but of course I was, but it was subtle but made all the difference. It takes time in the “two buildings” but eventually our two different methods of playing converge. I suppose I was fortunate, in way, for not having any playing commitments–I was able to focus on just the new way. But even then, of course, I found myself reverting to old habits, or new bad ones.