Hey Francis, Merry Xmas!
There are no rules! It does not surprise given the extra lip “cushion” you might have would affect what rim works best.
If it feels good and sounds good, it’s good. To quote Bobby Shew “not everyone wears the same size pair of shoes”.
Thanks for sharing and I welcome other peoples thoughts and experiences.
All the best to you and your family for the festive season.
Greg